Overcoming Traumatic Feelings...

Overcoming Traumatic Feelings...

There Will Be Moments When You Feel Like Your Life Has Been Wasted.
I am not always happy. I am not always excited. I do not always feel hope. There
are times when I do not see change. There are times when I feel like I have poured most of my energy into bad soil. I have made so many mistakes in my life…many. Admitting a mistake quickly positions you to extract Wisdom from it. The Reward of Pain Is The Willingness To Change.
 Everyone at some time feels like giving up...quitting. Do not get discouraged...your best season is just ahead. This letter will help you unleash a never-ending River of Faith!

Persuasions...That Have Helped Me Survive..!

My Feelings Are Created By My Focus. My feelings can change as quickly as they enter. Friends, Remind yourself that these are feelings, and you can change your feelings. Your feelings are not you…they are feelings. What You Hear Determines What You Feel. My world is decided by what I choose to magnify.
 You can change your feelings through focus.
  You can change your feelings through music.
  You can change your feelings through praise.
  You can change your feelings by changing the people you are around.
  Nothing Is Ever As Bad As It First Appears.
Just yesterday I was with little or zero naira when I left for the house of God but at a returned I was blessed by a care minded.

Listen to this: No situation is final and no condition is permanent. Jesus was on The Cross 3 days before The Resurrection. What you think is a loss is an investment. Nothing Is Ever As Bad As It First Appears. Bad times activate worthy relationships. Jonathan met David in a crisis time. Ruth met Boaz in a crisis season. Esther was recognised in a crisis moment. Bad Times Bring Good People Together.
    Quitting Does Not Improve Your Life. Quitting has no reward. What do you get? Regret…shame…guilt…multiplied fear…loss of Faith.
    Everybody walks through the wilderness. Everybody walks through the fire. Everybody goes through the rough places. You must see that Endurance is a Bridge. Endurance Increases Access. Endurance makes you a testimony of encouragement to others.
You Are A Success!

7 Personality Traits of a Great Leader Not Taught in Schools.

If you want to be a leader who attracts quality people, the key is to become a person of quality yourself. Leadership is the ability to attract someone to the gifts, skills and opportunities you offer as an owner, as a manager, as a parent. Jim Rohn calls leadership the great challenge of life.
What’s important in leadership is refining your skills. All great leaders keep working on themselves until they become effective. Here’s how:
1. Learn to be strong but not impolite. It is an extra step you must take to become a powerful, capable leader with a wide range of reach. Some people mistake rudeness for strength. It's not even a good substitute.
2. Learn to be kind but not weak we must not mistake weakness for kindness. Kindness isn't weak. Kindness is a certain type of strength. We must be kind enough to tell someone the truth. We must be kind enough and considerate enough to lay it on the line. We must be kind enough to tell it like it is and not deal in delusion.
3. Learn to be bold but not a bully.It takes boldness to win the day. To build your influence, you've got to walk in front of your group. You've got to be willing to take the first arrow, tackle the first problem, discover the first sign of trouble. Like the farmer, if you want any rewards at harvest time, you have got to be bold and face the weeds and the rain and the bugs straight on. You've got to seize the moment.
4. Learn to be humble but not timid. You can't get to the high life by being timid. Some people mistake timidity for humility. But humility is a virtue; timidity is a disease. It's an affliction. It can be cured, but it is a problem. Humility is almost a God-like word—a sense of awe, a sense of wonder, an awareness of the human soul and spirit, an understanding that there is something unique about the human drama versus the rest of life. Humility is a grasp of the distance between us and the stars, yet having the feeling that we're part of the stars.
5. Learn to be proud but not arrogant. It takes pride to build your ambitions. It takes pride in your community. It takes pride in a cause, in accomplishment. But the key to becoming a good leader is to be proud without being arrogant. Do you know the worst kind of arrogance? Arrogance from ignorance. It's intolerable. If someone is smart and arrogant, we can tolerate that. But if someone is ignorant and arrogant, that's just too much to take.
6. Learn to develop humor without folly. In leadership, we learn that it's OK to be witty but not silly; fun but not foolish.
7. Learn to deal in realities. Deal in truth. Save yourself the agony of delusion. Just accept life as it is—the whole drama of life. It's fascinating.
Life is unique. Leadership is unique. The skills that work well for one leader may not work at all for another. However, the fundamental skills of leadership can be adopted to work well for just about everyone: at work, in the community and at home.
To Your Success!