Nugget;
“The road to success is not straight.
There is a curve called Failure, a loop called Confusion, speed bumps called
Friends, red lights called Enemies, caution lights called Family. You will have
flats called Jobs. But, if you have a spare called Determination, an engine
called Perseverance, insurance called Faith, you will make it to a place called
Success."- Bro. Emil Andrew dela Rosa. Success is the thing that is
sought by all people and it is the completion of anything intended, in other
words success is finishing what you planned to do.
People
are asking, what is the road to success? There are no direct answers to this
question; because success has many different factors determine how an
individual will be up for success. Laing Burns, Jr. said "Success often
comes to those who have the aptitude to see way down the road." Benson Adima,
“In order to achieve success, there are some methods and skills to achieve
success, first set your goal, second develop yourself and explore your
abilities, third organize your time and self-management”.
Everyone
must have purpose for his life, so first of all a method and skill to achieve
success is to setting your goal. In order to determine the goals that matter to
you, and you will use in your plan, make a list of everything you wish or dream
to achieve in various areas of your life thought this dream whatever small or
large and type it on paper. Writing all your goals on paper at this stage will
expand the horizon of your thinking, so do not try thinking and how you will
achieve these goals; because thinking will reduce and limit your belief in your
ability to achieve them.
Listen,
when you write a list of your goals you will start to see new opportunities in
life were not see before, and you will find yourself attracted to these opportunities.
It's important to plan for each goal so
focus on what you really want to accomplish and the reasons why you need to
accomplish them and list your goals through prioritization, also, focus on the
different areas of your life and do not allow fear to stand in your way. Do not
focus on your goals at the same time and try to separate them and do each one
alone .first, do the most important one and then do the next.
Moreover, determine your ability to achieve
your goals and ask yourself if you are able to make commitment to the goals you
set for yourself no matter what kind of goals? So don't write goals and you
can't do it or you don't have ability to do it. Sometimes you will notice that
you will not achieve the goal the way that you planned. And at times you'll
find that your experience for some creative plans and the actual moment of
taking some steps lead you in directions never imagined before, and are often
greater and more successful than those that you put it in your plans. This is
because the plans were based on the current ability and the ability change over
time. Also, it's important to do your
best to follow your goals. Because whenever you see your goal in front of you
and you feel that it negotiable to achieve and be realistic, you will persevere
to achieve and move away from the postponement. Experts say that "the more
you feel that your goal is real; it could increase the likelihood of success in
achieving this goal."
In
addition, explore your abilities and develop yourself is one more method to
achieve success. To discover your abilities, ask yourself I am strong in what?
What is my strength and what are my skills? What I concentrate upon? How do I
increase my abilities? Furthermore, you must read and learn and develop
yourself always and never. Learn about yourself and your abilities and learn
from life. Also, applied what you learned, so you will not bring new
information only if you applied the old, and also you cannot be treated
yourself, unless you learn from your attitude. The purpose of the knowing the
weaknesses are not to induce misery or frustration, but it opens the door for a
great deal of awareness and improvement. So, don't shy away from weaknesses.
Instead, look at things objectively, recognize and admit weaknesses and make
conscious decisions on what to do about them.
Besides,
the more self confidence you have, the more likely it is you'll succeed .So,
you should have Self-confidence. Although many of the factors affecting self
confidence are outside your control, there are a number of things you can do to
build self confidence like focus on contribution, work out, speak up,
compliment other people and sit in the front row and many other ways.
Therefore,
you should be Persistent and ambitious as you want. Renewal and creativity go
hand in hand, which are essential to every person, like the daily routine
boring absorbs the energy and enthusiasm of the person; therefore, you have to
renew your life, you will find that successful are keen to develop yourself
through several ways, and are keen to develop your methods to achieve what you
want.
Another
method and skill to achieve success is organizing your time and self-management.
It is mean ways by which one had to make the most of his time in achieving its
objectives and create a balance in his life between obligations and desires and
goals. Therefore, we must develop a plan to become a time management easy and
accessible. You should familiarize yourself with the comparison between the
priorities, because the opportunities and obligations may at the same time
brings, which one would you choose? In short, choose what it deems useful to
you in your future at the same time is not harmful to others.
Furthermore, you can use of your leisure time
by many ways such as reading magazine articles or some books, review your list
of goals, break out your notebook and start develop list of ideas for what you
want to do, get prepared for your next task and certainly do not forget to take
some time for yourself to relax and make yourself ready to work again. Also,
focus and do not confuse your mind in more than one direction, if you take this
advice and applied it, you'll find a lot of time to do other things more
important and urgent. Manage your time, by draw up a daily schedule, where you
should write the things you plan doing that particular day. Try to pick
realistic time plans for those things and live an extra error margin, just not
too big. Remember to, draw up a weekly schedule, and put the necessary targets
first, as self-development objectives through courses or reading, or family
goals like go out to trip. Besides, use modern techniques to seize
opportunities and achieve success, as well as to organize and saves your time
such as the Internet, computer and other.
To draw the curtain, the above discussed methods and skills that will help you to achieve success by setting goal and achieving them effectively and efficiently, and staying focused by prioritizing your main aims. Also, help you exploring your capabilities and develop yourself through reading and learning and many other ways, and help to organize your time and self-management. Thus, the road to success has many difficulties and bumps, but you are able to continue it with determination and resolve. And you can be a successful individual in life by following a systematic and simple lifestyle.
Farewell till we comes your way again.
