In
another occasion, Martin Luther King Jr.
gives an inspiring speech about designing your life’s blueprint, and reminds us
that whatever you do, you must always keep moving.
Transcript:
“This is the most important and crucial period of your
lives, for what you do now and what you decide now at this age may well
determine which way your life shall go. The question is, whether you have a
proper, a solid, and a sound blueprint. I want to suggest some of the things
that should be in your life’s blueprint. Number one in your life’s blueprint
should be a deep belief in your own dignity, your own worth and your own
some-bodiness. Don’t allow anybody to make you feel that you are nobody. Always
feel that you count. Always feel that you have worth, and always feel that your
life has ultimate significance.
Secondly, in your life’s blueprint, you must have as a
basic principle the determination to achieve excellence in your various fields
of endeavour. You’re going to be deciding as the days and the years unfold what
you will do in life, what your life’s work will be. Once you discover what it
will be, set out to do it and to do it well. Be a bush if you can’t be a tree.
If you can’t be a highway, just be a trail. If you can’t be the sun, be a star,
for it isn’t by size that you win or you fail, be the best of whatever you are.
Finally, in your life’s blueprint must be a commitment
to the eternal principals of beauty, love, and justice. Well life for none of
us has been a crystal stair, but we must keep moving, we must keep going. If
you can’t fly, run. If you can’t run, walk. If you can’t walk, crawl, but by
all means, keep moving.”
I would like to plug in the story of Elephant
Rope, to drive home my point: Once upon a time a man was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped,
confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small
rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the
elephants could, at anytime, break away from their bonds but for some reason,
they did not.
He saw a trainer nearby and asked why these
animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away. “Well,” trainer said,
“when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie
them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are
conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still
hold them, so they never try to break free.”
The man was amazed. These animals could at any
time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they
were stuck right where they were.
Like the elephants, how many of us go through
life hanging onto a belief that we cannot do something or that we cannot keep
moving, simply because we failed at it once before?
Throughout our lives we go through different
experiences, some are positive and some we see as negative and unpleasant. When
you hang on to a negative or unpleasant experience you are constantly thinking
about it. And when you constantly think about that negative event you prevent
yourself from moving forward towards your life blue printe. How many pleasant
memories do you recall everyday? Chances are you're like most people and you
have a number of unpleasant experiences that you're holding on to, which is
preventing you from moving forward.
The more you carry the worse life gets. Why?
Because you've filled your mind up with negative experiences, because you
continually hang on to something that doesn't allow you to move forward, in
short, you're carrying useless baggage that's really slowing you down.
Think of it this way: you're on a hiking trip
and along the way you keep picking up heavy objects, things that really don't
serve you. After a while, these objects begin to slow you down and unless you
get rid of them, you'll never complete your trip.
To let go you have to get your mind to focus
on different goals and different objectives. It's not about saying: I let go of
the pain from my fight with ---- and move on. That will help, but if you really
want to start moving on, then you have to get your mind to focus on new things,
in the process you automatically let go of the things that have been slowing
you down.
You may want to read
inspiring story of Shaesta Waiz
https://successbreath.blogspot.com.ng/2017/07/until-your-goals-are-achieved-dont-stop.html
For emphasis, Martin
Luther King Jr, declared, Life for none of us has been a crystal stair, but we
must keep moving, we must keep going. If you can’t fly, run. If you can’t run,
walk. If you can’t walk, crawl, but by all means, keep
moving.