SUCCESS BREATH : Success Is For All.

SUCCESS BREATH : Success Is For All.

The Road to Success is Paved with Failures

Eventually, this series is coming to a hurt, but not until you hear this ‘’Success is not built on success. It’s built on failure. It’s built on frustration. Sometimes it’s built on catastrophe’’. – Sumner Redstone

Let say you have a job and you work really hard at it. You’re always the first person to enter the office, you stay late, and you even work on the weekends. One day, your employer calls you in to his office and unexpectedly lays you off. At that precise moment, your heart sinks and your entire world comes crashing down. You automatically think you’re a failure. You think you’ll never be successful. Does that sound like you? Sadly, we’re all guilty of thinking this about ourselves at some point in our life.

When you do, remember these 4 simple truths to help you dust yourself off and soldier on.

11.        Failing doesn’t make you worthless sir!

Listen up, in today’s world, we are constantly preoccupied with what others think about us. For some inexplicable reason, we want everyone to think we’re successful and thriving. We fear that if we fail, we’ll be perceived as a good-for-nothing. But everyone fails in life. I mean, look at Steve Jobs or Bill Gates, Dangotes, Professor Osinbajos did they become successful overnight?

22.        Failing opens up new doors

While we often think of failing as the end of the world, it’s actually a redirection. I know it’s hard to believe, but you have to understand that every time something doesn’t work out, it’s because something way better is on the way. All we have to do is work hard, be patient, and trust the process.

33.        Failing makes you stronger

Although failure knocks you down on your feet, it also forces you to get back up and continue fighting. It forces you to get out of your comfort zone and try things you wouldn’t have otherwise thought of trying. In other words, failure forces you to grow. So every time you feel like you’ve hit rock bottom, remember that what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.

44.        Failure is delay not defeat

Life has a funny way of taking unexpected turns, but I promise you it’s nothing against you. You see, everything in life has its own timing, and everyone on this planet has their own personal clock. So sometimes when you fail, it’s not because you didn’t try hard enough. It’s because the universe is telling you that it’s just not your time. What can you do in this case? Trust your timing. Trust the process. Just like Steve Jobs once said: ‘You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future’.

You want the Kernel of the series and the moral of the story? To quote Denzel Washington, “You will fail.” Not once, not twice, but many, many times. That’s what life is about. So stop being so hard on yourself. Focus on learning the lessons of each failure, and the next one will take you one step closer to success.

Thanks a bunch for reading……… 

 

The Road To Success, 4

The road to success is paved with good intentions. To make it you must fill your car with gas which is the positive attitude you obtain to keep yourself moving. The engine of your car is your heart which you need to put forth in order to succeed. Your destination is your goal and in order to reach your goal you must strive. You must find your destination, fill up your car with gas, press on the pedal, and let your engine work it's magic... STRIVE!

We all want to walk on the road of success
But do you day by day measure your progress
Do you have a vision?
Do you have a mission?
You need one even if it is inspired by television
We all want to walk on the road of success
But do you day by day measure your progress critically look at your personal development grizzle over the final accomplishment, decide on the instruments you need at the moment?

On its road, there are many paths to take with many sacrifices along the way to make patience, faith and hard work, please don't forsake or your dreams will pour empty into a wide lake.
We all want to walk on the road of success but do you day by day measure your progress, is your vision greater than greatness?
You are the first one you must try to impress take a step at a time and do not digress. For success when achieved, I say without , is more gratifying than any orgasm.

In nugget, 'I know that 'The Road to Success' is not an easy 'Road' to walk on, but you have to know that in this world there is no free lunch. So if you want to achieve your goal, you have to know how to pay for it. It is because if you do not want to make any pay, you will not get anything from the return. So do not think that the benefits of this world will just fall from the sky for you that are because you are not the special one in the world. So anyone who wants to reaches to the 'Success', he or she has to go through on the 'Road' that he or she choose'.

I make bold to tell you that, if you really want go to the 'Success', you have to go exactly straight, and if you meet so many of problem and obstacle on the 'Road' that you have choose, please be strong and courageous to face it, do not just escaping from all the problems and obstacles, then just look for those shortcuts. Because when you walk on the wrong step, you will not arrive to the destination called 'Success' any more, and you will arrive to the place called 'Failure'. So I hope that when you choose your own 'Road' in the time, please think clearly that what 'Road' you have choose and do not just think that you wants to reach to the destination in the short time.

We all are normal people; no any one of us is an exception, so that we all will have the experienced on the same way, so please do not think that only you have to go through on the 'Road'. Even those well-known entrepreneurs, politicians, scientists, musicians and so on. They also just like us. They also have to go through such a difficult 'Road', you have to know that the reason why today they will be so successful is because they do not give up their choice on the 'Road' that they choose, they were brave to face the 'Road' that are brought so many problems for they. Therefore, today, they will so successful! So do not easily to give up or go back because as long as you are willing to face whatever will comes on the 'Road' that you choose, one day you will also become like them so successful!

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Road to Success, 3

“Where there’s a will, there’s a way”; that is, when we are determined to do a thing, however difficult it may be, and even apparently impossible, we shall find a way to do it.

The real reason why we do not try to do certain things, or fail to do them when we try, is often because we do not really want to do them; or, if we really want a thing, our desire for it is feeble. When we do not really want to do it, we set to work to find excuses, and make mountains out of mole hills.

Every difficulty is exaggerated, and we so fill our minds with the obstacles in the way, that we think it is impossible of attainment.

Our desire is like a thin, feeble stream of water which is turned aside or blocked by every small obstacle. But a rushing torrent simply sweeps rocks and trees and banks out of its way, and forces itself through insuperablery obstruction. In the same way, a fierce desire, and a strong determination, will make light of difficulties, and will discover the way to success.

Take the story of Pallissy, the French potter some years ago. He made up his mind to discover a pure white glaze for china. He was a poor man, and had but little education; but for twenty years he worked at his task, trying hundreds of experiments and failing in all.

But he never gave in. His wife and neighbours called him a lunatic, for he ruined himself in his efforts. At last, to get wood to feed his furnace in the final experiment, he burnt up all the furniture in his house. But he succeeded in the end, and became a famous man. He had the will, and he found the way.

Listen up, Many a man who became famous as a scholar, artist or business man, had a similar struggle against apparently insuperable obstacles. But their determination to succeed brought them success.
Napoleon Bonaparte said the word “impossible” was not found in his dictionary.
Alexander the Great earmarked "There is nothing impossible to him who will try.”

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The Road To Success 2

Nugget; “The road to success is not straight. There is a curve called Failure, a loop called Confusion, speed bumps called Friends, red lights called Enemies, caution lights called Family. You will have flats called Jobs. But, if you have a spare called Determination, an engine called Perseverance, insurance called Faith, you will make it to a place called Success."- Bro. Emil Andrew dela Rosa. Success is the thing that is sought by all people and it is the completion of anything intended, in other words success is finishing what you planned to do.

People are asking, what is the road to success? There are no direct answers to this question; because success has many different factors determine how an individual will be up for success. Laing Burns, Jr. said "Success often comes to those who have the aptitude to see way down the road." Benson Adima, “In order to achieve success, there are some methods and skills to achieve success, first set your goal, second develop yourself and explore your abilities, third organize your time and self-management”.

                            

Everyone must have purpose for his life, so first of all a method and skill to achieve success is to setting your goal. In order to determine the goals that matter to you, and you will use in your plan, make a list of everything you wish or dream to achieve in various areas of your life thought this dream whatever small or large and type it on paper. Writing all your goals on paper at this stage will expand the horizon of your thinking, so do not try thinking and how you will achieve these goals; because thinking will reduce and limit your belief in your ability to achieve them.

Listen, when you write a list of your goals you will start to see new opportunities in life were not see before, and you will find yourself attracted to these opportunities.  It's important to plan for each goal so focus on what you really want to accomplish and the reasons why you need to accomplish them and list your goals through prioritization, also, focus on the different areas of your life and do not allow fear to stand in your way. Do not focus on your goals at the same time and try to separate them and do each one alone .first, do the most important one and then do the next.

Moreover, determine your ability to achieve your goals and ask yourself if you are able to make commitment to the goals you set for yourself no matter what kind of goals? So don't write goals and you can't do it or you don't have ability to do it. Sometimes you will notice that you will not achieve the goal the way that you planned. And at times you'll find that your experience for some creative plans and the actual moment of taking some steps lead you in directions never imagined before, and are often greater and more successful than those that you put it in your plans. This is because the plans were based on the current ability and the ability change over time.  Also, it's important to do your best to follow your goals. Because whenever you see your goal in front of you and you feel that it negotiable to achieve and be realistic, you will persevere to achieve and move away from the postponement. Experts say that "the more you feel that your goal is real; it could increase the likelihood of success in achieving this goal."

In addition, explore your abilities and develop yourself is one more method to achieve success. To discover your abilities, ask yourself I am strong in what? What is my strength and what are my skills? What I concentrate upon? How do I increase my abilities? Furthermore, you must read and learn and develop yourself always and never. Learn about yourself and your abilities and learn from life. Also, applied what you learned, so you will not bring new information only if you applied the old, and also you cannot be treated yourself, unless you learn from your attitude. The purpose of the knowing the weaknesses are not to induce misery or frustration, but it opens the door for a great deal of awareness and improvement. So, don't shy away from weaknesses. Instead, look at things objectively, recognize and admit weaknesses and make conscious decisions on what to do about them.

Besides, the more self confidence you have, the more likely it is you'll succeed .So, you should have Self-confidence. Although many of the factors affecting self confidence are outside your control, there are a number of things you can do to build self confidence like focus on contribution, work out, speak up, compliment other people and sit in the front row and many other ways.

Therefore, you should be Persistent and ambitious as you want. Renewal and creativity go hand in hand, which are essential to every person, like the daily routine boring absorbs the energy and enthusiasm of the person; therefore, you have to renew your life, you will find that successful are keen to develop yourself through several ways, and are keen to develop your methods to achieve what you want.

Another method and skill to achieve success is organizing your time and self-management. It is mean ways by which one had to make the most of his time in achieving its objectives and create a balance in his life between obligations and desires and goals. Therefore, we must develop a plan to become a time management easy and accessible. You should familiarize yourself with the comparison between the priorities, because the opportunities and obligations may at the same time brings, which one would you choose? In short, choose what it deems useful to you in your future at the same time is not harmful to others.

 Furthermore, you can use of your leisure time by many ways such as reading magazine articles or some books, review your list of goals, break out your notebook and start develop list of ideas for what you want to do, get prepared for your next task and certainly do not forget to take some time for yourself to relax and make yourself ready to work again. Also, focus and do not confuse your mind in more than one direction, if you take this advice and applied it, you'll find a lot of time to do other things more important and urgent. Manage your time, by draw up a daily schedule, where you should write the things you plan doing that particular day. Try to pick realistic time plans for those things and live an extra error margin, just not too big. Remember to, draw up a weekly schedule, and put the necessary targets first, as self-development objectives through courses or reading, or family goals like go out to trip. Besides, use modern techniques to seize opportunities and achieve success, as well as to organize and saves your time such as the Internet, computer and other.

 
To draw the curtain, the above discussed methods and skills that will help you to achieve success by setting goal and achieving them effectively and efficiently, and staying focused by prioritizing your main aims. Also, help you exploring your capabilities and develop yourself through reading and learning and many other ways, and help to organize your time and self-management. Thus, the road to success has many difficulties and bumps, but you are able to continue it with determination and resolve. And you can be a successful individual in life by following a systematic and simple lifestyle.

Farewell till we comes your way again.  

The Road To Success

The road to success is paved with sacrifices and determination.

Along the road, you will face may stumbling blocks, twists, and turns. You may never know how far the road will take you. Or is it just around the corner?
Your journey along the road will be determined by faith, hard work, belief, courage, and above all persistence.
Your willingness to take chances and fail only to get up and try again and again.
Along the way, you may face fear, doubts, unfairness, and setbacks.

I promise you. When you succeed and overcome all the obstacles, there is no greater joy than making your dream come true.

"The road to success is not straight. There is a curb called Failure, a loop called Confusion; speed bumps called Friends; red lights called Enemies; caution lights called Family. You will have flats tyre called jobs. But, if you have a spare called Determination; an engine called Perseverance; insurance called Faith, and a driver called Jesus, you will make it to a place called Success!!" - Unknown

Because success lies in the acquisition of knowledge, success is an ultimate demonstration of resilience. And each & every success is built on the ability to do better than good enough. Success is failure turned inside out the silver tint of the clouds of doubts.
The path to success is not always easy for any, for it is filled with bushes, thorns and snakes. Throughout it may be slippery-you may fall easily, it might be a dauntingly uphill path that may tire you out and make you want to retreat.
But if you stay closer to your focus, you shall make it to a place success. I said u shall make it to a place called "success"

Depending on whom you ask, success means different things. If you were to ask me, I'd say it means having a career that revolves around my real life. If you were to ask my younger sister, she'd say it involves finding a way to mobilize money and build a designers outlet. The first step in achieving success is often deciding what it means to you.
Chances are your answer is similar to mine.
But whatever your version of success, people who want to be successful should mimic the behaviors of the great ones who came before them. These behaviors include:

Follow your talents. It's helpful to be passionate about your pursuits, but passion without talent is like a car without a full tank of gas -- it won't get you as far as you want to go. The book 'The Element' discusses this: no matter what you are good at -- whether it's writing, drawing, computer coding or motivational speaking -- focus on that area and keep pursuing it. Everyone has a gift, so find yours and put in the time to make yourself better at it.

Focus your quest. In this day and age, the quest for greatness in one area has taken a backseat to the concept of universal genius, or the ability to accomplish greatness in many areas. While a nice notion, this quest for universal genius is one that is destined to fail. The reason is simple: no one can be the best at everything. Even in areas that are related, it's often impossible to find an equally great level of success. So the road to success for some can be this simple: focus your quest on one big goal, and remember that a jack-of-all-trades is usually a master of none.
Limit your options. "Keep your options open" almost seems to be our country's anthem; I wouldn't be surprised if it's someday etched on the national currency. Our affinity for keeping options open unfortunately leads us to limit ourselves because it paves a road to mediocrity, rather than one to success.
Think about it this way: the person who goes to college knowing a job is waiting for them if they fail will never work as hard as the person whose only chance at success relies on their academic record. By limiting your options, you go all in, and force yourself to give your utmost effort to achieve a goal. Having a security blanket is important, so creating a backup plan can be worthwhile. However, making a commitment to one path or goal can also lead you to try harder -- and potentially be more successful in your efforts.

Work toward meaningful goals. In Stephen Covey's book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Covey researched the difference between the average person and the extraordinary person. He found that those who were able to achieve greatly understood the difference between efficiency and effectiveness.
Most people are obsessed with efficiency, which leads them to work towards goals that are meaningless, empty or simply unimportant. Effectiveness, on the other hand, is not about getting as much done as possible in a limited amount of time; rather, it's about getting things accomplished that matter. Sending out 100 emails in an hour may be efficient, but it's only effective if those emails are going to help you reach your goal. If they're not, skip them (and avoid carpal tunnel in the process).

Never give up. If you are 5 foot 3 inches, slow and have a vertical leap that involves negative numbers, giving up on your goal to make the MBA is probably a smart move. But if you have a goal that is achievable through actual talent and hard work, don't give up -- ever. You will make mistakes, and you will fail. So keep practicing, learning, accepting rejection and trying again.
The vast majority of successful people were also huge failures at one point in their lives: Walt Disney went bankrupt, Benjamin Franklin dropped out of school at age 10 and Theodor Geisel (better known as Dr. Seuss) had his first book rejected by 27 publishers. Success comes from hard work, resilience and determination. No one gets it for free ... unless, of course, you're a Kardashian.

Farewell Till We Come Your Way Again, Benson Adima Remains Your In-house Advocate Of Success.

Success Is For All.

Success is for all, nobody has the monopoly of success, it has no geographical boundary, no matter how old you are, where you’re from or what you do for a living, we all share something in common—a desire to be successful. Each person’s definition of success is different, however, as some may define success as being a loving and faithful spouse or a caring and responsible parent, while most people would equate success with wealth, fame, and power.
We all want to achieve success so we could live a comfortable life—have financial freedom, drive a nice car, and live in a beautiful house. However, although success can be achieved, it does not come easy.
Surprisingly there are five factors to success that are free and there are Time, Talent, Idea, Information and Integrity.
Time: time is our most precious treasure because it is LIMITED. Time is the currency of life and should be appreciated. If u waste time u can be labelled as a murderer because you are wasting life. People usually say time is money but they are wrong, because time wasted is not money but time invested is. Nowadays Nigerian youths spend hours speculating about matches to be played in Europe forgetting that it is another man’s business instead of investing meaningfully on their own time. Everybody on time have same twenty-four hours each day your input will determine your output from it. You cannot manage time but utilize time, the rich use money to buy time but the poor waste time to save money. To be successful in life one has to invest and utilize time properly.  
Talent: talent is a natural endowment, A marked innate ability inherent in everyone that need to be discovered, harnessed in other to use maximally. Nobody pay for a talent but people exchange skill for values. Harnessed talents become skills.
The major problem we have is that in this part of the world we usually discover our own talents at the age of forty. Don’t wait for your pension to follow your passion. Talent is anything you are ready to do even without being paid and you drive joy in it. Success is always doing what you know how to do best and love doing it, that’s talent.
Idea: idea rules the world. Idea is about making your own contribution; it could be in improving, advancing what is in existence. For example, hand microphone and clip microphone.
The whole essence of education is to see a problem and solve it, ideas put problems to rest. After a while a solution can equally become a problem example, old and new generation computers. When it comes to being successful in life one needs to drop the paper called certificate and put on your thinking cap that’s the world of ideas if there is no job you can create one. You should be a trouble shooter not a trouble maker.  If you have ideas, you have the main asset you need, and there isn't any limit to what you can do with your business and your life.
Information: success is learning something new each day, learning is synonymous to earning. There is no difference from He that cannot read and He that does not read. The Bible says my people perish for lack of knowledge, the Quran says He that knows and he that don’t know are not the same. Sometimes in this part of the world our problem is knowing so much without application. For you to be successful one need to apply the knowledge own for a positive yield.
Integrity: integrity is doing the right thing even when nobody is looking at you. Integrity is very important if you have integrity you will dine with the kings but if you lack integrity you have close doors of opportunities. Don’t compromise if you want to be successful in life because you don’t know when and where your name will be mentioned and because of your compromise you will miss the opportunity. Don’t let what you are doing to today tarnish your future have this laid up in your mind if I cannot beat them I cannot join them.
Attitude: Your attitude will determine altitude. A bad attitude can literally block love, blessings and destiny from finding you. Don’t be the reason you don’t succeed.
Listen to how Roy Bennett puts it "You Are the Master of Your Attitude, you cannot control what happens to you, but you can control the way you think about all the events. You always have a choice. You can choose to face them with a positive mental attitude".
Farewell till we come your way again, Benson Adima remains Advocate Of Success.